This morning I impart to you something as a male ally of feminists. I challenge women to be the best they can be – & by that I mean be the best “them” imaginable. When I seek a woman’s advice, or company, I love all the things that make her uniquely female, & more. I do not ask that she muscle up to be a man – or wear a leather belt – or a moustache: I love women because they are women, & I want women to bring their womanhood to the public social space we share, & ‘feminise’ us with your – at times strong, at times independent, at times candid, but always female selves.
Your caringness is not unwanted; your tact is like a candle in the window, illuminating something for us all; & your good sense is not only much-wanted but legitimately much-needed.
& So be fully you. femininity included, in this world;
I want you to be a part of this because you’re so good, not because I think we can muscle you into being more men. Feminise away.