Pretend your Loved-&-cherished is of course unspeakably beautiful to you *but she once said in her mind she is 30 pounds overweight* –
Tell her sexually that
“30 pounds is nothing. You are beautiful.”
Then proceed to f*** her brains out until ‘her eyes ain’t moving, now’ ((they just lay there in their climb…))
=D That is one way to cure a hang-up your lover has.
I would love to leave it at that, but it is best I also say I would do this mostly or only in a strategic, very thought thru way, saying precisely what you planned to – not improvising at all. (Receive your lover’s response & respond as or *if* needed, minimally.)
Do this because it’s needed, not just because you want to without thinking.
(If someone does this ‘imperfectly’ for you, forgive them. They meant well, of course.)
We call this sexual “healing” but actually ‘personal-growth’ as it is called could easily be slipped in.
This might be a little brave. I will leave it here to not destroy the very fabric of society. ^_^
Happy Trails.
Joe Valentyn